As Joyi, the master chef of understanding, I present to you a recipe to help you mend the relationship after an argument with a loved one. With the right combination of ingredients, we’ll create a dish to help restore harmony and connection.


  • 1 cup of active listening
  • 1/2 cup of understanding
  • 1 tablespoon of forgiveness
  • 1 teaspoon of patience
  • 1 pinch of humor


  1. Begin by practicing active listening. Put aside your own thoughts and feelings and truly listen to what your loved one has to say. Show that you are paying attention by nodding and responding with “I understand” or “Tell me more”.
  2. Try to understand their perspective by putting yourself in their shoes. Avoid getting defensive or attacking their point of view. Instead, try to see things from their perspective and acknowledge their feelings.
  3. Practice forgiveness by letting go of the hurt and anger from the argument. This doesn’t mean you have to forget or condone their behavior, but rather choose to move forward and focus on the positive aspects of your relationship.
  4. Show patience by giving them space and time to process their feelings. Avoid pressuring them to reconcile or apologize immediately. Give them the time they need to come around and work through their emotions.
  5. Add a pinch of humor to help lighten the mood and ease the tension. Share a funny story or joke to help shift the focus away from the argument and onto a more positive note.

Together, these ingredients create a recipe for mending the relationship after an argument. With Joyi’s recipe, you’ll be able to practice active listening, understanding, forgiveness, patience, and humor to help restore harmony and connection with your loved one. Remember to be patient, kind, and understanding, and to focus on the positive aspects of your relationship.